From the bottom looking up

I had broken and found myself at the bottom.  It was here that I did some real deep thinking.  After all, I wasn't going anywhere too quickly.  I learned a very valuable lesson down there.  If you view yourself as broken, broken you will remain.  Everyone around me treated me like I was broken, many of them treating me like something was wrong with me.  It was hard for people to understand because they hadn't walked in my shoes, they hadn't experienced the pain and frustration and disappointment I felt when I looked at my life.

I began to see myself as broken, and that's when I hit the bottom.  I saw myself through everyone else's eyes.  The more pity I saw, the more broken I became.  I started to believe what so many were projecting onto me and didn't realize that's what I was doing.  Here's the thing, you're only as broken as you allow yourself to be.

It took someone very dear to me telling me to knock it off for me to snap out of it.  I had allowed myself to get so sucked into pit that I thought there way no way out anytime soon.  I can clearly remember being told to knock it off that I wasn't broken at all.  That conversation changed things in my life greatly.  It started in motion some big changes to get my life on track.  I took charge from that point on.

When life is tough, don't let yourself slip into keeping yourself stuck on the bottom.  Don't look at yourself as broken.  And here's another thing, when people in your life are struggling, help them see that they have worth and are not broken.  Sometimes a person just needs someone to believe in them.  I am so thankful to have this person in my life who thought I had worth and made me start seeing it.


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