When words fail...

Have you ever sat there thinking that did not go well at all?  Your words failed you.  They failed to say what you meant, what you felt, what you thought.  Everything came out all wrong and jumbled.  And there you sit feeling lost and broken wondering how it could go so wrong.  Nothing came out right.

I sit here thinking back over so many conversations gone wrong in life.  How do we fix what was said after?  Sometimes jumbled words can cause pain and heartache even when the intent was never meant to do that.  We can completely miss the mark sometimes.

It takes being completely open and raw to show your true intent.  Now is not the time to hold back.  If your words have failed you, you need your heart to take over.  It's also time for action.  You can't just sit back, hoping your intended meaning will shine through the mess you've inadvertently made.  Do what it takes for your true heart and meaning to be heard.

Words can fail us, but our heart and actions can repair what we broke.  It may take time, and it may be a lot of work, but if it is important, you will do the work needed to fix it.

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